Lunatic

Ok - her management team quit, her lawyer quit, she just went through a divorce, She messed up at the Video Music Awards in front of the world, she's been to court several times in the last few months, she has no family, she was thrust into the spotlight as a child by a terrible stagemom, she needs treatment, and she just lost her f*ing kids to an opportunistic thug (much to your happiness), so is it at all possible for you to just leave her alone for a bit??? Or is it just too much fun to kick people when they're that far down???

Maybe, if people had a real job instead of putting brit down she would not be going thru all this drama. It's people like you all who hurt her kids and her lifestyle.... Think about it!

Maybe, if people had a real job instead of putting brit down she would not be going thru all this drama. It's people like you all who hurt her kids and her lifestyle.... Think about it!

I find it very interesting that she turned the kids over two days earlier than she was ordered to. I would think that most moms in this position would take every last minute with their kids to enjoy their company before they had to give them up.

And, supposedly (according to a couple of other sites) the FIRST thing she did after giving the kids to KFed's bodyguard was to go tanning, all smiles. again, a mother who is truly upset at having lost custody (I would think) would go home and cry, or at least appear to be a little upset. Unless she was heavily sedated...

she is really giving people the impression that she never really wanted primary custody. I think she's happy with her "freedom".

T-Bone/Chris Carter: Why are you obsessed with defending this wretch and attacking everyone who's laughing? Get off your soapbox, please. It's past being old and is just stupid now.

Maybe she is happy. Maybe she's just plain tired of fighting, or maybe she knows the actual details of her own custody case (being that the details are SEALED) and it's not as bad as everyone thinks. WHO KNOWS... But it might be nice if people would just lay off a bit.

First off...I would be a wreck if my child was taken from me...that said, why would anyone expect Britney to act like a normal mom? She isn't a normal mom, she never was as far as I could see. If she is as whacked out as I think she is, then she isn't taking any of this seriously. I think the judge did the best thing for those little boys by taking them out of Britney's nightmare. If the recent photos are any indication, the boys look to be emotional wrecks.
By the way, did Federline have to submit to drug testing?

If you dont want to read this, then just close your eyes and pretend nothing happened. Just like she does...

Seriously, shit works both ways. Maybe if Britters had a real job, some freaking common sense, and hell, why not throw in a pinch of maternal instinct she might not be in the little predicament she's set herself up for. It's not like she's done everrrrything in her damn power to salvage whats left of her life. That's what Cousin Alli and lawyers are for, right?

And not to ruin everyone's fun, but perhaps it was Kevin's day for visitation and that is why she gave the kids over??? Who knows. I feel bad for the kids, they are so adorable and look so sweet. I can't imagine having mine taken away from me (even though some days I'd like to GIVE them away when they are arguing and picking on each other and being Kids in General)

t-bone, and I say this with no nastiness, just realism...

laying off brit is NOT going to happen, no matter how many people say "leave her alone!" sure it would be nice, but so would world peace.

as long as Britney is acting out the way she has been, people are going to talk...that's why they come to gossip sites like this. If she really wanted people to leave her alone, I think she'd have disappeared to the backwoods of Louisiana a long time ago. Asking a pap to get her a tampon? having the paps fill up her gas tank when she runs out of gas (for the 100th time)? These are not the actions of a person who wants to be left alone.

Darth Paul, I will say whatever I want and comment whenever I want, just like you. If you have trouble reading comments that differ from your own, (because you are a lame-a$$, NARROW-MINDED, b*tchy little queen), please feel free to skip over my comments. I won't be offended.

T-Bone said:

Darth Paul, I will say whatever I want and comment whenever I want, just like you. If you have trouble reading comments that differ from your own, (because you are a lame-a$$, NARROW-MINDED, b*tchy little queen), please feel free to skip over my comments.

um...couldn't this apply to YOU, too, what with your "leave her alone" crap? don't want to hear the Brit-bash? don't read the comments, then.

Shut up Darth Paul. Defending Britney and bashing Britney are pretty much two different things. Grow up.

You guys are vultures!
I guess you need more blood from Britney Spears. Your like the papparazzi!

not to poke my nose in a fight that doesn't involve me, but...

"Defending Britney and bashing Britney are pretty much two different things."

is this news to anyone? we all know what antonyms are, right? sheesh...

I think the point there was that, no matter what you may have to say, defend or bash, is allowed, and that it's not right for someone to tell others to stop what they're saying but at the same time say "I have a right to say whatever I want".

but hey, I could be wrong...

Everyone is entitled to (and probably has) their opinion and should be able to express it without cat-claws coming out. Healthy arguing is one thing, being mean is another...Neither of you were being very respectful to the other...just my humble opinion.

Besides, it's just a gossip blog guys...

Nastybugger - read the comments before you get yourself involved in something that has nothing really to do with you. Darth Paul tried to tell me to stop commenting, which is why I replied that I will comment if I want to and invited him to feel free to SKIP over my posts, if he doesn't like them. I simply asked if it was too much to ask people to stop kicking someone when they're down. But I guess that is just too much to ask. Apparently losing everything isn't really enough for all of you, so perhaps you should hope for a suicide or something like that. That might make you all feel better. Disgusting!

My goodness, how close in her face was that guy who took that picture? Look at the camera guy, goodness! And you just know they're all calling her name and trying to talk to her. She has some sort of self restraint because I would have socked him.

I would be just as crazy as she is if I had to deal with this mess everyday.

Hell, I'd check into rehab just to get some freaking peace and quiet.

Whoa! Hey kids! Can't we all just get along!?!?

Like Zekers said, we all have opinions, but name calling is for children and simple minds.

I have read posts by both T-Bone and Nastyburger, you're both above that.

Peace.

T-Bone, I don't get the feeling that anyone is hoping for a suicide.
I'm sure you'll tell me if I'm wrong, but I get the feeling that, because of what you do for a living (I suspect) it is truly painful to watch someone melt down before your eyes while you can do nothing but watch. I understand that perfectly-as do others here, I'm sure. It is the precise reason that I can't bring myself to slam her. Being ill is nothing to make fun of and I become highly defensive when I hear someone making fun of a person who is ill, it's wrong...Addiction/Depression/what ever is going on, it shouldn't be made fun of, I agree but, this is a gossip blog and you get what you pay for here, you know? It isn't called the Compassionate Life for a reason, I guess...

Hey yum yum...You know how she could keep that camera out of her face? STAY THE FCK AT HOME, SOBER UP, GET MENTAL HELP AND BECOME A REAL MOTHER.

She's posing for those cameras! The paps get her tampons, fill her car, give her direction when she gets lost, make her feel wanted. Trailer Trash P.O.S.

"nastybugger said:
I find it very interesting that she turned the kids over two days earlier than she was ordered to. I would think that most moms in this position would take every last minute with their kids to enjoy their company before they had to give them up."

I thought that too... but then I wondered if today is Kevin's day... that would be interesting to know.

However, if I lost my chilren (If I had children) I'd be bawling my eyes out.

t-bone, I DID read the comments, from top to bottom.

sorry, but I don't see the difference. darth paul didn't tell you to stop commenting, just to stop defending her and to "get off your soapbox". just as YOU told people to "leave her alone for a bit".

your reply to darth?..."I will say whatever I want and comment whenever I want"...isn't everybody else entitled to that, including those who bash her? unless you are a site mod, you don't get to dictate what's allowed and what's not.

as you have said to others, if YOU don't like what others are saying about her, it's just as easy for YOU to skip over THEIR comments.

It looks like the main photo is just cropped to center on her face, I don't think they were that close...but you never know.

Half of you are nuts! It's like you don't see the line between snarky/gossip fun and VERY REAL pain.

I recall many of you still laughing at Paris Hilton even after you saw brutal photos of her crying and panicking. I don't get it. But if you can live like that, go right ahead. Good luck to ya! I'll continue to stand up for whomever I want to stand up for, in spite of all of your venom.

On get off it T-Bone. Real pain????

She dropped her kids off two days early, went tanning and picked up some nose candy. Yeah...she's suffering.

She is happy as a clam. Find another victim T-Bone, cuz this one got just what she wanted.

Britney did absolutley NOTHING the judge ordered her to do; I don't think she requires a "suicide watch". In fact, I imagine that at this point, it may be a relief to her to not have custody of the kids. Any mom or dad who was ORDERED to accomplish certain tasks in order to protect her/his custodial rights as a parent and then BLEW-OFF SAID ORDER - is not concerned with losing their children. I can pity her upbringing BUT she is now an adult and a mom. "Pity" only extends so far.

"Britney did absolutley NOTHING the judge ordered her to do"

and Nanc', that's the key piece of info.

any parent that wanted custody would do whatever they had to in order to keep it. as I said earlier, if she had made some sort of discernible effort to improve her situation, which WAS in her power, I'd think there'd be a lot more sympathy and/or pity for her.

however, the fact that she didn't, and then lost her kids, AND doesn't seem to be very upset about it...well, that's why people aren't expressing sympathy or pity.

p.s. As a point of reference, I have 3 kids,ages 27, 17, and 6 and I would throw myself under a bus for any one of them and THEY KNOW IT. That's what good parents do; they are willing to do anything to protect their kids and their kids - know it. I didn't have Britney's upbringing BUT my childhood wasn't exactly "blissful" but as an ADULT and a good parent, you strive to ensure that your kids have a better childhood than you had. Oftentimes, mental illness or drugs are the reason some parents don't feel this way and that APPEARS to be the case here and the bottom-line here is not KFed's ability as a parent (we may still hear some bad things to come; I'm certainly not voting him "Dad of the Year) but the kids' safety. Too much concern has been placed over Britney (a GROWN woman) and not enough concern has been given those little boys. The stuff we've seen about their "care" I'm certain pales in comparison to the stuff that is on-record - SEALED records.

Nanc', I think it's great that you are able to be like that with your kids...my mother was too, and it's strange to me when mothers AREN'T.

add to the fact that your childhood wasn't idyllic, and I applaud you more.

Brit may not have had a good childhood, or much of one at all, but there are people (like you) who went through the same and were able to pull themselves up WITHOUT the gobs of $ that Brit has.

t-Bone:
'Ever feel like your in grade 7 and
all the popular girlz are trying to
get you not to like someone? And your
not going to get invited to the slumber
party because you don't agree with
them? them?

It's just one of those situations where people refuse to believe what's really happening until it's right in front of them.

I can agree that NO parent would give up their child two days early like that. And I also know of a parent who followed requirements outlined by a Judge TO THE LETTER in order to keep full custody of her child.

But I don't agree that tanning or doing drugs means she's happy about it. If she DID go out that same night and do drugs it's probably escapism.

Anyway, like nastybugger has said, Britney purposefully draws attention to herself. I personally would love to see a Britney blacklist-blackout through to next spring. I'd love nothing more than to have the paps, the blogs, the tabloids, MTV, and the maitre d at the Ivy, completely ignore her existence for 120 days. No spreads in magazines, no CD sales, no marketing... nothing. And not because I think she deserves to be left alone but because I'd love to see what she'd do if she were suddenly invisible. I'd also like to see whether the same fans who want the public to "leave her alone" would then accuse the media and the public of "abandoning her when she needed them most".

Jenn- Yeah, I'm sure you can tell that I am pained by the lack of an invitation ;)

Silverga - I would like nothing more than for Britney to get whatever help she needs and get healthy. I don't want her to head down the same painful path as Michael Jackson or Anna Nicole Smith.

Nanc' and nastyb, I learned in my early teens how to conduct myself and by my twenties I had a solid handle on my life-pretty much without my semi-capable parents help. Britney doesn't appear to have any of the emotional/social tools she needs to live her life or even attempt to be a parent. Is that her fault? I don't know, but it is a fact. Yes she is in her twenties but it is not my impression that she is functioning anywhere close to her age. I'm relieved that the children were removed from her and I have to imagine she is relieved to have them removed...perhaps she IS smart enough to know that she is incapable of handling children or personal sacrifice at this point or ever... I just think she made a series of really bad decisions and they came home to roost and she has no clue how to sort it all out since she's never had to deal with real problems before...couple that with possible mental health/substance abuse issues and you have a recipe for disaster.
I can't imagine having my child taken from me because of my behavior, my child is EVERYTHING to me-that fact alone makes this difficult to watch.

I couldn't imagine what sort of scum would still be supporting this drugged out, no-class has-been...then theres Boner!

Hopefully you have a support system for when Brit finally OD's.

As for you normal snarkies, Down With Brit-Brit! Black her out, Block her out, Lock her up. Whatev!

Silvarga said:
"I'd love to see what she'd do if she were suddenly invisible"

That's the perfect line right there. She has herself (and I'm speculating here) wrapped in her own world. It's what she's grown used to and still believes is real. As long as people are taking photos of her, she's still loved.

I'm not so sure it's everthing it's rumoured to be (although I'd put money on it that some of it's true.) It's that she doesn't know how to fuction in the real world. Most people develop an understanding for the 'real world' in their late teens... look where she was in her late teens? That's no concept of reality. If she was invisible, she'd fall apart. She doesn't know how to function without being adored and she goes out of her way to find that adoration (calling the paps to photograph stuff). As long as flashes go off in her face, she feels adored, even if the photos are to make her look horrible and point out all the bad in her life (which she brought a lot of on herself)

I think until reality kicks in, she's still got a long painful way to go. She really needs some therapy.

i would laugh at paris hilton getting hit by a bus.

Meme...ME TOO! Or Hohan, or Brit-Brit. Or if they were all walking together...JACKPOT!

I also read that she sent one of her minders out to buy her drugs last night. Some paps followed her car thinking she was in it. After stopping in an alley the car returned to her hotel and her minder delivered the drugs. And those pirate outfit pictures are from this weekend, not last night. Yesterday she was wearing a hideous pink silk shirt as a dress with her disgusting brown boots. *hides*
Yes, I have no life.

@T-Bone. Pleez, Brit looks all broken up about losing the kiddies. Get you head out of your arse luv. Save your sympathy for those who actually deserve it. I've seen crackheads who've lost their kids react with more emotion than this loser. She doesn't WANT her kids.

TBone is Britney.

Lastly, I gotta go.

See, I took my daughters for their annual CHECK-UPS this morning and the older daughter got a Menengitis shot and and her second Hepatitis A shot and the younger one got a flu shot and her Chicken Pox booster.
I've got dinner started (wild-caught Salmon with lemon juice, an organic salad with Romaine, tomatoes, and Feta cheese with their fave olive oil dressing) and they want to go for a bike ride.
"Hippie" much? NO, I'm retired military and a semi-conservative and I'm a GOOD parent...not PERFECT...but good.
My husband/their dad is leaving today to help-out with a forest fire, so, it's just the girls and me.
ARE YOU LISTENING BRITNEY?? Go home to Louisiana; buy a mansion with servants, suck crawfish heads and eat grits and take care of your babes...if/when you get the chance. Lord, love ya.

Nanc', fix me a plate...I'm coming ovah!

any word on why she turned his kids over a full 24 hours before it was required? didn't the court order say wednesday at noon? maybe i read that wrong....

oops, it's been discussed in the thread. disregard the comment. pretend i was never here. i think i'll take a pass on this partic discussion.

Do any of us really know how she's reacting to losing her children? The photos out here rarely match the actual story. In fact, what seems to be true one day isn't true the next. This website would have you thinking that this is Britney right after handing off her children. Not so.

And I defend her because she needs treatment and mental health help, and I honestly don't think she sees any of it. In my opinion, this girl isn't just snubbing the system, she honestly doesn't see the problem. This is a very dangerous place for someone her age.

I think she has herself cushioned from everything with whatever drugs she's taking and she's so far gone that none of this is touching her.

Losing her kids might not bother her right now, she's probably glad of the peace and quiet and being free of the responsibility but it'll have to hit home sooner or later that the boys aren't coming back to her. That could be nasty for her, when it finally hits home.

TBone- she does need help and I don't think she sees it either.

Ooh, ooh! But it looks like she's wearing panties this time!!!

Whew! It's HOT out there for Denver in October!

I agree with you T-bone, Brit seems to be in need of mental help and it's been a long time comin'.

As for you, "nastybugger", Come on "ovah"! We always have room for more!

GREEN CARDIGAN!!! WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN??? You're one of my favs here and then you disappeared...*sigh*

Nanc'
What is for dessert? =)

Hi Clarisse - oh you know how it goes, I took a few days off from celeb watching (like 27 hours total!). All the Ange/Brad do gooder news last week send the server into overload..

Ummm, it appears this is a very heated subject, on both sides of the "debate".

Unfortunately, here's the scoop:

She's a drug addict, plain and simple. She needs help, good psychological help. All of her troubles have been brought on by HER. I'll agree, addiction is horrible bitch, once it has it's claws in you. Apparently, money and fame do not make you realize how deep in "it" you actually are. They say you always have to hit rock bottom....well, if this isn't rock bottom for her, then nothing will wake her up. Some people, much to everyones dismay, will never get themselves clean becaue they refuse to admit there is even a problem. I think this is the case with her. So much fame, so soon, so young = big fat ego. Queen of her own F*cked Up Kingdom.

Realize, there are 2 children involved here. They didn't ask for this. How sad is it that given the shady-skanky-asshat-Dad vs. drug-addicted-self-absorbed Mom, these poor kids now reside with Dad AS ORDERED BY THE COURT....... Man, it really is true that money CANNOT buy class.

Despite all these wonderful psychological analyses (of both Brit Brit and our each other?) I just have the most IMPORTANT thing to point out...

Nice fanny pack, Britney!

Okay, I'm gonna say this real slow so ya'll who are Pop Tart lovers can understand and maybe inform the trainwreck of this.
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